Brooke Astor Dies At 105

Brooke Astor, the last of the American branch of the Astor family (by marriage) died yesterday at her New York estate, Holly Hill in Briarcliff Manor, reportedly of pneumonia.

She is survived by her only child, Anthony Dryden [Kuser] Marshall, two grandsons, Philip and Alexander Marshall, and several great-grandchildren. She had two step children by her marriage to Charles Marshall, i.e. Peter Marshall and Helen Huntington Marshall.

“I grew up feeling that the most important thing in life was to have good
manners and to enhance the lives of others,” Brooke Astor said in a 1992
interview with The Associated Press.

Several newspapers have reported that he chose the following epitaph for her gravestone: “I had a wonderful life.”  And indeed she did.  Funeral to be held on Friday, August 17, 2007.
Recap of her Funeral.

Janice

Also see several articles I’ve written about Brooke Astor that include her family tree.

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Five Fun New Hampshire Summer Entertainments For A Cheapskate

Almost every town has a park, common, beach, or a common area where residents can gather (if yours does not, visit surrounding towns and discover theirs).

The first three games in this list are definitely outside entertainments.  The remaining two can also be enjoyed inside, should the weather take a turn for the worst.

You may already have most of the items needed for these games. If not, consider taking one day to visit some yard sales in advance, looking for kites, frisbees, paper suitable for origami, bubble wands, and marbles.

1. Fly a kite in your local parkFirst, make your own kite!

2. Play frisbee golf at your local park. (You will of course need at least one frisbee).  Either mark off (using ribbon tied around trees) your course, or make a map. Count the number of throws it takes for you to hit the next “hole.”  Person with the lowest score wins. Be sure to clean up when your game is done. Note: this sport, also called Disc Golf, has gone professional, DOH!

3. Blow bubbles.  Have a bubble blowing contest (i.e. largest bubble, bubble that drifts the furthest etc.  Make your own bubble tube and bubble formula first.

4. Create origami.  Take leftover paper, wrapping paper, or construction paper outside on your deck, or picnic table (obviously on a day that is not too breezy). Use some of the diagrams for creating origami on the internet, and some for paperfolding. There are even web sites dedicated to kid's origami.

5. Play marbles.  Most of us have some of these hanging around, but we never learned to play. You can either draw the rings on the ground, OR you can use chalk to draw the needed circles on pavement.  Learn how to play here, and here, and here.

If you know of other almost free things to do (for all ages) please share.  And most of all, have fun!

Janice

PS: Also see -Four Strangely Amusing New Hampshire Entertainments-

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Genealogy Seminars I'd Like to See

The .30th Edition of the Carnival of Genealogy's. topic is Genealogical Conferences & Seminars. I've never attended one of these, but I might if the subject matter presented was odd enough…errr was of great enough interest to me.

I'll fess up that my seminar interests would probably not appear in any of the traditional conferences (mostly because I have yet to find a “Bizarre Twist” category). If Chris Dunham, the “Master of Fractured Genealogy Top Ten Lists,” was willing to explain his creative methodology, I'd be the first in line to sign up.

Genealogy Seminars I'd Like To See include:
(*the stories marked with an asterisk are really about the topic I've posted).

– Digging Up Dirt Through Cemetery Research.
– Clowning Around–Locating Carnival Performers Under Your Family Tent.
– Gleaning Gems From The Family Privy.
– My Auntie Made Gumballs: Discovering Family Businesses.
– Evaluating Scars and Pock Marks in your Ancestor's Photographs.
Jailhouse Anecdotes: Was That Arsenic in Gramma's Tea? [or Peas in Miriam's case]
– The Chris Dunham Method: How Palm Prints Are Better than DNA
– Terry Thornton's Guide to Family Hills and Mounds.
– *footnoteMaven's Guide to Finding That Two Hundredth Victorian Woman in the White Dress.
– Steve's Guide to  Translating Illegible Handwriting.
– John Newmark's “I'm Dracula's Cousin, Are You?.
– Blaine Bettinger: “I'm Related To You, Like It Or Not.”
– *Bill West: “49 Things To Do With A Flutaphone.”
– *Randy Seaver: “Performing Genealogical Research While Wearing a Mask and Snorkel.”
– *Becky Wiseman: “Preserving Historic Outhouses.”
– *Lori Thornton: “Unfortunate Tombstones.”
– Jasia: “How to Gain Ancestors and Weight At the Same Time.”
– Miriam Midkiff: “192 Year Old Trash To Treasure.”
– Tim Agazio: “Power Trimming Your Family Bush.”
– Craig Manson: “FOIA Is Not For Sissies.”

What would your favorite seminar be entitled?

Janice

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Poem: "Contoocook River," by Edna Dean Proctor

Of all the streams that seek the sea
By mountain pass, or sunny lea,
Now where is one that dares to vie
With clear Contoocook, swift and shy?

Monadnock's child, of snow-drifts born,
The snows of many a winter morn,
And many a midnight dark and still,
Heaped higher, whiter, day by day,
To melt, at last, with suns of May,
And steal in tiny fall and rill,
Down the long slopes of granite gray:
Or, filter slow through seam and cleft,
When frost and storm the rock have reft,
To bubble cool in sheltered springs
Where the lone red-bird dips his wings,
And the tired fox that gains its brink
Stoops, safe from hound and horn, to drink.
And rills and springs, grown broad and deep,
Unite through gorge and glen to sweep
In roaring brooks that turn and take
The over-floods of pool and lake,
Till, to the fields, the hills deliver
Contoocook's bright and brimming river!

O have you seen, from Hillsboro' town
How fast its tide goes hurrying down,
With rapids now, and now a leap
Past giant boulders, black and steep,
Plunged in mid water, fain to keep
Its current from the meadow green?
But, flecked with foam, it speeds along;
And not the birch trees' silvery sheen,
Nor the soft lull of whispering pines,
Nor hermit thrushes, fluting low,
Nor ferns, nor cardinal flowers that glow
Where clematis, the fairy, twines,
Can stay its course, or still its song;
Ceaseless it flows till, round its bed,
The vales of Henniker are spread,
Their banks all set with golden grain,
Or stately trees whose vistas gleam–
A double forest in the stream;

And, winding 'neath the pine-crowned hill
That overhangs the village plain,
By sunny reaches, broad and still,
It nears the bridge that spans its tide–
The bridge whose arches low and wide
It ripples through–and should you lean
A moment there, no lovelier scene
On England's Wye, or Scotland's Tay
Would charm your gaze a summer's day.

And on it glides, by grove and glen,
Dark woodlands and the homes of men,
With now a ferry, now a mill:
Till, deep and calm, its waters fill
The channels round that gem of isles
Sacred to captives' woes and wiles,
And, gleeful half, half eddying back.
Blend with the lordly Merrimac:
And Merrimac whose tide is strong
Rolls gently, with its waves along,
Monadnock's stream that, coy and fair,
Has come, its larger life to share,
And, to the sea, doth safe deliver
Contoocook's bright and brimming river!

Source: The Cambridge Book of Poetry And Song: by Charlotte Fiske Bates; T.Y. Crowell & Co; 1910, page 449.   — Poem by Edna Dean Proctor.

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Henniker New Hampshire Poet: Edna Dean Proctor (1827-1923)

Edna Dean Proctor. Photograph from Print Collection, Miriam and Ira D. Wallach Division of Art, Prints and Photographs, NYPL Digital Collections.

Edna Dean Proctor. Photograph from Print Collection, Miriam and Ira D. Wallach Division of Art, Prints and Photographs, NYPL Digital Collections.

Edna Dean Proctor was born in Henniker NH in 1827, on Proctor’s Hill overlooking the Contoocook River. She was educated in early years at home by her mother, later at Mt. Holyoke Seminary and at Concord NH.  Her life’s professions included a teacher in Woodstock CT, a governess in Brooklyn NY, a poet, and a teacher in Framingham MA. Beginning in the 1850s she contributed frequent articles and poems to various national papers and periodicals.

In 1858 she published a volume entitled, “Life Thoughts,” containing excerpts from the sermons of the Rev. Henry Ward Beecher, which was widely circulated in the United States and England. Inspired by events leading up to the Civil War, she became well known for her patriotic poetry supporting the Union cause. The first volume of her collected poems was published in 1866.

Photograph of Edna Dean Proctor taken on her 94th anniversary; from The Granite Monthly.

Photograph of Edna Dean Proctor taken on her 94th anniversary; from The Granite Monthly.

In 1867 she published a volume of “Poems, National and Miscellaneous.” Shortly afterward she accompanied a party of friends on an extensive foreign tour, visiting Egypt and the Holy Land, traversing every country in Europe except Portugal. In Russia she traveled by routes not usually taken, by tourists; of this portion of her tour she gave a poetical account in her “Russian Journey” (1873). In 1888 she compiled “A Genealogy of the Storrs Family.”

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow showed his appreciation of her poetry by including many of her productions in his “Poems of Places.” She was friends with John Greenleaf Whittier, and told him, “I have always been impressed by the mingled volcano and iceberg of your character.”

In 1893 she wrote the poem, “Columbia’s Banner,” which was the official program of Columbus Day programs throughout the United States. In 1899 Old Home Week was first observed in New Hampshire and she penned the official poem for the event.  She wrote countless poems, including several about New Hampshire locations that will be posted in future blog articles.  A sampling of some of her poetry can be found at the links below.

Edna Dean Proctor Bridge

View northeast, west elevation, showing underside of arches – Edna Dean Proctor Bridge, Spanning Contoacook River at State Route 114, Henniker, Merrimack County, NH; Reproduction Number: HAER NH,7-HEN,3–5; Repository: Library of Congress Prints and Photographs Division Washington, D.C.

Edna never married. She died in December 1923 at the age of 95.  While living in S. Framingham she had belonged to the Boston Authors’ Club and was considered a part of literary Boston. She was described as “a charming woman of great beauty and a winning friendliness of manner.”

In her will she established the John Proctor and Family Trust Fund which in addition to funding the construction of a fountain in Proctor Square in Henniker NH, provided for the repair or replacement of the stone arch bridge that cross the Contoocook River.  When this bridge was destroyed by a hurricane in 1938, this fund provided for its being rebuilt.  The township residents decided then to rename the bridge after Edna.

Janice

*Additional Reading*

Edna Dean Proctor, from Representative Women of New England.

The Mountain Maid and other Poems of NH, by Edna Dean Proctor; 1900- Internet Archive

Mount Holyoke College Archives and Special Collections: Edna Dean Proctor

Photograph of Edna Dean Proctor from The Granite Monthly, January 1924

Photograph of Edna Dean Proctor from The Granite Monthly, January 1924

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*FAMILY TREE OF EDNA DEAN PROCTOR*
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John Proctor, b. abt 1595 in Groton, Suffolk Co England and d. bef 11 Oct 1672 in Ipswich, Essex Co MA. He married 1 June 1630 in Groton, Suffolk Co England to Martha Harper. She b. abt 1607 in Groton England and d. aft 1672 in Salem, Essex Co MA. He came in 1635 from London in the ship “Susan and Anne,” at the age of forty, with his wife Martha, aged 28, and two children–John aged three years and Mary aged one year. He settled in Ipswich and later removed to Salem MA. He died, probably in 1672, as his will was proved November of that year. He left seven children.
Children of John & Martha (Harper) Proctor:
1. John Proctor Jr., b. bef 9 Oct 1631 in Assington, Suffolk Co England; m. 1662 to widow Elizabeth (Thorndike) Bassett. They had nine children. He d. 19 Aug 1692 in Salem, Essex Co MA. He was executed for witchcraft (wizardry) by hanging. (his wife had previously been accused, tried and condemned, but was reprieved on account of her pregnancy, and was never executed).
2. Martha Proctor, b. bef 17 Oct 1633 in Assington England
3. Mary Proctor, b. abt 1634
4. Sarah Proctor, b. bet 1636-1640
5. Abigail Proctor, b. bet 1639-1640
6. Hannah Proctor, of Salem MA
7. +Joseph Proctor, b. Ipswich MA
8. Benjamin Proctor, b. abt 1651 Ipswich MA

Joseph Proctor, son of John & Martha (Harper) Proctor, b. Ipswich, Essex Co MA; m. Martha Wainwright, dau of Francis & Phillipa (Sewall) Wainwright. She b. 24 Jan 1659 in Ipswich MA.
Child of Joseph & Martha (Wainwright) Proctor:
1. +Jacob Proctor, born 25 Jan 1680 in Ipswich MA [per Ipswich recs]
2. Abigail Proctor, born 13 Apr 1685 in Ipswich MA
3. Frances Proctor, b. 8 Jan 1686

Jacob Proctor, son of Joseph & Martha (Wainwright) Proctor, b. 25 Jan 1680 in Ipswich, Essex Co MA. m. abt Nov 1709 (intention 29 Oct 1709 in Ipswich MA) to Mary Perkins, dau of Isaac & Hannah (Knight) Perkins. She b. 1684 in Ipswich MA.
Children of Jacob & Mary (Perkins) Proctor:
1. +Isaac Proctor, baptized 23 Jan 1725/26 in Ipswich MA
2. Mary Proctor, baptized Aug 1829 in Ipswich MA

Isaac Proctor, son of Jacob & Mary (Perkins) Proctor/Procter, b. abt Jan 1725/26 in Ipswich MA, baptized 23 Jan 1725/26 (Chebacco parish) Ipswich MA. He died in Manchester MA 29 May 1799 at the age of seventy-three. He married 8 Jan 1746-1748 in Ispwich MA to Lucy Goodhue, dau of John & Anna (Cogswell) Goodhue.
Children of Isaac & Lucy (Goodhue) Proctor:
1. Jonathan Proctor, b. 1747 Ipswich MA, bapt 26 March 1749 Ipswich MA
2. Isaac Proctor, b. 1750, bapt 7 Jan 1749/50 Ipswich MA
3. +John Proctor, b. 1757, baptized 14 Aug 1757 Ipswich MA recs
4. Francis Proctor, b. 1759, bapt. 4 March 1759 Ipswich MA
5. Lucy Proctor, b. 1764
6. Mary Proctor, b. 1767
7. Nathaniel Proctor, b. 1770
8. (dau) Proctor, b. abt May 1753 Ipswich MA

Lieut. John Proctor, son of Isaac & Lucy (Goodhue) Proctor, b. 1757 in Manchester MA and d. 3 Feb 1821 in Henniker NH of typhoid. He was baptized 14 Aug 1757 in Ipswich, Essex Co MA. He served as a lieutenant during the American Revolution. He married  3 May 1783 to Hannah Cogswell. She b. 12 Aug 1762 and d. 3 Feb 1796. He m2nd) 18 Feb 1792 to Sally Gardner of Gloucester. He married 3rd) 19 Jan 1797 to Mrs. Ednah (Dodge) Dane, at Hamilton [recorded Ipswich MA].  She was b. abt 1769 and died 31 Jul 1846 in Henniker NH.  He is buried in Center Cemetery, in Henniker NH.
Children of John & Hannah (Cogswell) Proctor:
1. Hannah Proctor, b 5 March 1784; m. — Fink [or Pitman]
2. +Capt. John Proctor, b. 7 July 1788
3. Mary Proctor, b. 30 March 1791; d. 24 Oct 1793
4. David Choate Proctor, b. 28 Sep 1794; d. 1864; m. 1828 to ?
Children of John & Ednah (Dane) Proctor:
5. Israel Proctor, b. Dec 1797; d. 2 Nov 1798
6. Mary Proctor, b. Aug 1798; d. 19 July 1876; m. 9 Feb 1818 to Enoch Darling

Capt John Proctor, Son of Lieut. John & Hannah (Cogswell) Proctor was born 7 July 1788 in Manchester MA, baptized 13 July 1788, and died 8 Dec 1836 in Henniker NH; he married 1st) 20 Jan 1803 in Londonderry NH to Lucy Proctor who d. 21 Sep 1825; he m2d) 1826 to Mary Crocker of Derry/Londonderry NH, she d. 15 Apr 1827. He m3rd) 31 Dec 1827 in Henniker NH to Lucinda Gould, dau of Elias & Sally (Hilton) Gould of Henniker. She b. 15 Dec 1802 and d. 15 Nov 1878 in South Framingham MA.  She married 2d) Joseph Calef Thompson of Andover NH, son of Benjamin & Miriam (Brown) Thompson. He b. 21 Dec 1794 in Andover NH and d. 12 March 1861 in Andover NH. He had married 1st) 1821 Mary Eastman of Henniker who d. 1841.
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1850 United States Federal Census > New Hampshire > Merrimack > Andover
Joseph Thompson, 55  M Farmer NH
Lucinda Thompson 48 F NH
Mary Thompson 16 F NH
John Thompson 5 M NH
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1860 United States Federal Census > New Hampshire > Merrimack > Andover
Joseph C. Thompson 65 M Farmer 4000/100 NH
Lucinda G. Thompson 57 F NH [Mrs. Lucinda (Gould) Proctor]
John P. Thompson 14 M NH
Lucinda G. Proctor 26 F Music Teacher
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Children of John &  Lucy (Proctor) Proctor:
1. Isaac D. Proctor, b. 26 July 1812; a physician who d. in Mississippi in 1842
2. Hannah Proctor, b. 30 June 1814, d. 17 Apr 1837
3. Israel F. Proctor, b. 31 July 1817 NH; d. 30 Aug. 1904 Peoria IL ; m. Sorilla –; resided Peoria IL; children Henry F. (b 1843 IL) and Ednah D. (b 1851 IL).  [my thanks to Betsy Christison, 3rd great-granddaughter of Ezekiel Proctor (below) for correcting Israel’s birth date for me]
4. Ezekiel A. Proctor, b. 5 Oct 1819, resided Peoria IL
5. John Cleveland Proctor, b. 11 Oct 1822; resided Peoria IL
Child of John & Mary (Crocker) Proctor:
6. Edna Dean Proctor, b. 15 Apr 1827, d. 15 Apr 1827
Children of John & Lucinda (Gould) Proctor:
7. +Edna Dean Proctor (2nd), b. 1 Sep 1829 in Henniker NH
8. Mary C. Proctor, b. 1831, d. 3 March 1838
9. David Choate Proctor, b. 1833; d. 17 Dec 1880; m. Sarah “Sally Storrs,” of Brooklyn NY, daughter of Charles Storrs; had children Charles S. & Judith.
4. Lucinda Gould Proctor, b. 9 June 1834 in Henniker NH, d. 25 April 1905 in S. Framingham MA; m. Charles W. Coolidge and resided in Framingham MA; in 1860 living with her mother and step father in Andover NH

Edna Dean Proctor, daughter of John and Lucinda (Gould) Proctor, was born 18 September 1829 in Henniker NH, on Proctor Hill overlooking the Contoocook River. She was educated in early years at home by her mother, later at Mt. Holyoke Seminary and at Concord NH. [see biography above] She taught drawing and music at Woodstock CT, and then in 1866 became governess in the family of Henry C. Bowen at Brooklyn. While there she became acquainted with Henry Ward Beecher. In 1905 she was a teacher in Somerville MA at the Benj. G. Brown school, while boarding in Boston MA. She died in December 1923 in Framingham MA.
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St. Alban’s Messenger, St. Albans Vermont, December 27, 1923: “WAS FRIEND OF WHITTIER. Edna Dean Proctor is Dead at the Age of Ninety-Five. Boston. Dec. 20. — Edna Dean Proctor, poet of a generation ago, whose circle of friends included Henry Ward Beecher and John Greenleaf Whittier, is dead in Farmington in her ninety-fifth year. She had never regained her strength after breaking her ankle last winter in Atlantic City. Edna Dean Proctor was born in Henniker, NH September 18, 1829, on a hill overlooking the Contoocook river. Although after the years of her life took her far from New Hampshire, she considered that state her own. In 1899 she wrote on the occasion of its first Old Home Week, “The Hills Are Home.”

Boston Herald, December 21, 1923: Funeral Notice of Edna Dean Proctor

Boston Herald, December 21, 1923: Funeral Notice of Edna Dean Proctor

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The Boston Herald of December 21, 1923 reported: “FUNERALS. Miss Edna D. Proctor. FRAMINGHAM, Dec. 20 — Funeral services for Miss Edna Dean Proctor, the widely known poet, who died on Tuesday in her 95th year were held this afternoon at the home of her niece, Mrs. Mary Fitts, 336 Union avenue.  The services were simple and there was no music.  The Rev. Theodore B. Lathrop, pastor of Grace Congregational Church, officiated. Burial followed in Edgell Grove cemetery here.  The bearers were David G. Proctor of New York, Samuel French of Everett, George N. Fitts of Framingham and Joe Mitchel Chapple of Boston.
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December 23, 1923, Boston Herald, page 11
$20,000 TO TOWN IN PROCTOR WILL. Henniker, NH Gets Bequest in Memory of Father of Poet. The will of Miss Edna Dean Proctor, poetess of Framingham, who died Dec. 13, was filed in East Cambridge probate court yesterday, showing many public bequests, including one of $20,000 to her native town, Henniker, N.H. This gift is in memory of her father, John Proctor, and is to be used to replace the iron drinking fountain in the public square and erect a granite fountain, and also to replace the old stone bridge over the Contoocook river about a mile from her birthplace. The iron fountain to be removed was also her gift to the town. Other bequests include $5000 to the New England Conservatory of Music, to be called “The Lucinda Gould Fund” in memory of her deceased sister; $1000 to the Congregational Church in Henniker, in memory of her grandparents, Elias and Sally Hilton Gould; $5000 to charities in Peoria Ill in memory of her deceased brother, David Choate Proctor, who lived there many years.

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Editor’s note: article updated in July of 2014.

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