New Hampshire: There Is Something In An Old House

There is something in an old house that there never can be in a new one.


The new one may be handsomer, it may have higher ceilings and broader panes of glass, a medieval mantle piece, and French paper on walls, and Persian rugs. You may be proud of it, but you loved the old house–the dear old place, almost as old as the old trees at the door. A tall man could touch the ceilings with his palm, and the great mantle pieces were stiff and ugly; but there, in the fire light used to sit, once upon a time, the old grand-mother with her knitting; while the children climbed her knee and she told them stories of her youth.

Out of that window–the little window with the diamond panes–she had looked to see her young husband coming home after a long day’s hunt, flushed with exercise, bright and handsome. There lay the great red deer he shot; yonder the dogs were kenneled–the great, brown eyed dogs.

One of their race then unborn sometimes stands beside her as she tells these tales, old and blind and toothless, and there are no deer now. Yes, up that road she had ridden a gay young bride, coming for the first time to the husband’s home full of hope and joy. There her babes had been born, grown to men and women, and gone forth.

Out of that door went, at last, her husband’s funeral train, and nothing was left her of life but its memories. There she sat, thinking and knitting, telling her old stories. How could she be content? the young people often thought.

The tall clock stood in the hall, ticked as it had done seventy years. In the glass cupboard there stood a sacred tea service with gilt edged, and silver tea pot that had been a wedding present.

Fox’s Martyrs and Pilgrim’s Progress were in the book case, and the big Bible on the stand; and there were bright profiles of choked looking gentlemen and ladies with wondrous puffs on their heads, on the walls up in the bed-rooms were rag carpets and high post beds, and chests of drawers, and long presses.  How many heads had rested on those pillows!  What happy dreams have been dreamt, what bitter tears shed!

And down in the parlor, with its hard upright sofa, guests with strange dullness of which no one ever dreamt, had been entertained; and lovers had wooed and won, and doubtless there had been little tragedies, such as go on between lovers through all the generations.  Story after story had told itself in the old house.

They are not all happy ones, but they make the old house different from a new one. Memories lurk in the very walls; and who shall say that spirits of those who lie at rest in the old church yard yonder, under tomb stones on which moss has grown do not sometimes flit through it–unseen but felt–bringing softened emotions and tender recollections as they pass?

The very trees in the garden are not as other trees. They have their stories. Under that a first kiss was taken, under that hands met in an eternal parting.

Down in the orchard is a baby’s grave, the baby would have been fifty years old if he lived to-day–but only a little while ago his mother sat there and shed a tear over it.

The new house is fine, and costly, and modern, but there is no poetry in it and there will not be until at least two generations have made it an old house, and haunted it with sweet ghosts, as they did the old one.

From The Farmer’s Cabinet, published in Amherst New Hampshire on 18 August 1877. [Although no author was given, the editor of this newspaper was Edward D. Boylston who also published poetry.  He probably is the author of this article].

Janice

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Ancestry.com’s Internet Biographical Collection Removed Permanently

Just a few minutes ago, I received an email from Ancestry.com’s copyright attorney office, as a follow-up to an email I had sent them.  First, they made sure I was aware that the Internet Biographical Collection has been removed from their service, and that the removal is permanent.

At the same time they stated, “we appreciate your patience and apologize for the inadvertant [sic]  use of your blog.”

I immediately took a look at the 24-7 Family History blog, and discovered a post by Kendall Hulet, who is product manager at Ancestry.com.  His post stops just short of a real apology, but his post does seem genuine to me, and he states “we’ve removed this product with no intention of re-releasing it.”

He also indicates that if they attempt to create a similar product, “we will seek your input and talk more with community leaders to make sure we get it right.”

I am satisfied with this.  I am moving on.

Janice

PS, For the background story, read:

–Ancestry.com Hijacks Cow Hampshire–

–Ancestry.com Puts the Cow Back In the Barn (For Now)–

Follow up story:

“Commenting on Commenting”

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New Hampshire Slanguage: Conniver

Conniver \Con*niv”er\, n.
One who connives.

Although the origin of the word conniver is from the Latin (connivere, meaning to blink or shut the eyes), the current usage appears to come from the Emerald Isle.  It was one of my wee Irish grandmother’s favorite words. Continue reading →

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Ancestry.com Puts the Cow Back In The Barn (For Now)

[[Final note: read my important third post about this topic, hopefully the last time I will have to comment on it, before you read this one]]

This is the latest episode in the recent drama of cache hijacking and Ancestry.com's Internet Biographical Collection.  Ancestry.com announced this afternoon (August 29th) that they are (at least for now) removing the entire collection. 

Checking for myself, indeed they have done just that. (Later on the search box itself still existed without a name and it sometimes worked.  Even later on the database with all its links and search ability were indeed completely removed).

Kudos, Ancestry.com with some caveats (comments here addressed TO Ancestry.com or the Generations Network…)

Speaking as someone, who prior to this event, held you in the highest esteem…. when you make a final decision on what to do with the so-called “Internet Biographical Collection,” DO consider more than just what is technically legal and therefore what you can get away with without getting justly sued.

Consider the goodwill of your customers, and your affiliates, and the general genealogical community. They are what make you a success.  Without them you will fail in more ways than just losing money.

I had written and sent an email this morning to NEHGS, that New England organization that I have also been associated with for several years.  The context of the email said: “I can understand NEHGS's wish to ally themselves with a highly-respected genealogy research service in order to provide more active content.  However I might warn you that NEHGS's possible alliance with Ancestry.com is a bit like the fox (Ancestry) going to bed with the chicken (NEHGS).  In the morning, there may only be a few feathers left on your side of the bed.”

I do urge you that in your future decisions and relationships, you will not create a horrifying realization in us that we have gone to bed with the fox.  As an optimistic, non-litigious person, I feel that you did a very good thing today by removing that database. But, as John from Cincinnati said, “I've got my eye on you!”

Janice Brown
Blog: Cow Hampshire

PS: I have also taken the precaution to add a robots.txt file to my blog so that from today, based on current information about Ancestry.com's bots, their bot will not be able to cache or snag any current or future posts.  And as always, this entire article is my OPINION.

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-kinexxions (followup): Speculation Regarding IBC and Ancestry–

-Creative Gene: A Collective Sigh of Relief–

-The Genealogue: Caching Trashed–

-Eastman's Online Genealogy Newsletter: Internet Biographical Collection Removed From Ancestry-

-DearMYRTLE: Ancestry Withdraws Offensive Database–

-Everton Publishers Genealogy Blog: The Generations Network Continues to Tarnish Their Image-

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