Missing People: New Hampshire Sunday Drivers

Sunday Drivers were once all the rage. I'm serious. 

Where do you think that term came from?  Nowadays the term “Sunday Driver” describes just a person ahead of you on the road, who is driving at a rate much slower than you'd like.

About fifty years ago, the term meant something else completely.  Heck everyone was driving slowly then. If you drove fast in New Hampshire, you only did so until you hit that first frost heave, and heard the clunk of your transmission as it hit the asphalt.

It used to be a common occurrence after Sunday lunch for my (and other) parents to stuff the kids into the back seat of the car and head out into the country “to take in the sights.” The younger kids were so short that they really couldn't see out the windows, and the older siblings took the choice outside seats to insure you didn't fall out somehow.

Mom was a certifiable tour guide, providing us with a road by road, building by building, cow-by-cow description of what we might be seeing if we were taller.  About half way through the ride one of my brothers would get bored, and would begin pinching and kicking.  No matter how hard we begged and cajoled, mom wouldn't tie him to the roof of the car.

My dad would sometimes comment about how the area had changed since he was a boy.  Once in a while he'd take a crazy turn, my mom would squeal and we'd be bouncing down some god-forsaken rut.  You'd hear loud scratching sounds as the car plowed through overgrown tree branches and bushes.  When we'd come out on the other side, my mom would protest and get him to promise that he would never do that again.  But of course he would repeat the process the next time.  

By the time you got home from our Sunday Drive, either you were sufficiently bored and ready for a nap, OR your stomach was so upset from all the jostling that you wanted to lie down.  Either way, it was a brilliant way for parents to “naturally sedate” the kids, so they could enjoy the rest of the evening.

The new generation has forsaken the traditional Sunday Drive. Instead of that feeling of togetherness produced by close quarters, each person instead goes their own way. Instead of driving around somewhat aimlessly for hours, electronic devices such as Wii, television, and iPods provide adolescent amusements.

All I can say is “Way to go!”

Janice

P.S.: I'm the little girl pictured above, in my best outfit and bonnet, getting ready for a Sunday drive.

-Youtube: “Sunday Drive”-

–Sunday Driver Rock in New Boston NH–

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Sleep Sweetly: Manchester New Hampshire’s Connection to Marchiness Margaret (Fuller) Ossoli

In a well-known book entitled, “At Home And Abroad,” by Margaret Fuller Ossoli,

and published in 1856 by her brother Arthur B. Fuller, can be found an intriguing notation. It indicates that that Angelo Eugene Philip Ossoli was first buried in Valley Cemetery in Manchester, New Hampshire. Continue reading →

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Nancy (Lewis) Nemec

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Memories of Rocking Horses

I blame Jasia over at Creative Gene, for prodding my memory that I once desperately wanted to be a cowgirl. Then Terry at Hill Country of Monroe County Mississippi, got all maudlin about his “Old Paint.”

That was it.  I cracked.  I went in search of a photograph of myself on my pony. I found it! A black and white snapshot.  I was straddling my rocking horse, dressed in various western clothing accessories and enjoying my traveling music.  I needed nothing more to experience pure bliss.

My “pony” was a blue wooden steed with spots and a red braid.  I'd put a record on the phonograph and would rock for hours.  I rode so long that my “horsie” made grooves in the linoleum floor.  This photograph above shows my sister Kathi playing the DJ while I rode my pony, grinning like a lunatic.

That photo was during my “everything western infatuation” stage.  The Lone Ranger was my favorite television show. I enjoyed wearing anything fringed, feathered or furred.  I knew the lyrics to “Davey Crockett.”

Those were the days when it was believed that playing with toy rifles, pistols, and other weapons would not result in your becoming an axe-murderer or deviant. (My brother Peter is pictured with me above. Thats either a coon-skin cap I'm wearing, or a piece of an old rug).

We often played “Cowboys and Indians.”  Sometimes the cowboys won.  Sometimes the Indians did.  No one told us we were being politically incorrect. (In the photo below my sister Kathi is on the left, and I'm on the right).

If anyone else would like to join in and post a photograph of themselves on any sort of horse (rocking, bouncy, carousel, real), join in!  Send me the link and I'll post it here.

Janice

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A New Hampshire Irish Christmas Carnival

A New Hampshire Irish Christmas Carnival indeed sounds like fun.

Many of New Hampshire’s residents are of Irish ancestry.  Unlike the other ethnic groups who immigrated to our state, most Irish deserted (or had forgotten) their language and customs within one generation. They wanted to fit in, not stick out, and so they rarely passed their traditions down to succeeding American generations.

A scant few lilting words such as conundrum and ginniker (prounced incorrectly as “ginger” by my mom) were left behind and repeated (only two generations from the original immigrants).  Reportedly other words such as “Jazz” and “poker,” “sucker” and “scam” are also of Irish origin, but some of those words wouldn’t have been heard by my tender young ears.

As far as Irish holiday customs go, the only one that continued in our family was placing a candle in the window.  For safety reasons the candle became a electric light, and they were placed in all the front windows of the house, not just one.  My mother told me that it was a custom for the youngest daughter, usually named Mary, to light this candle each year (or plug it in, in our case).  My question then directed to my mother was how would you know it was your youngest daughter being born, in order to give her that name? (Wasn’t I cheeky!) My mum replied that maybe it was a strong message to one’s husband that this was the last child! I had to think about that.

I’ve heard a second version of this tradition, that the candle is lit by the youngest child in the family, and then extinguished by any one named “Mary.”  This second scenario seems to make more sense to me.  You can see how such traditions can easily change over time.

Where exactly does the carnival part of my title come in?  This article is my contribution to the 2nd Carnival of Irish Heritage & Culture, over at the “Small-Leafed Shamrock” blog.  The theme of this month’s carnival is to provide recommendations for favorite books or resources that help in researching Irish ancestors. The good news–these are all free!

IGP Ireland Genealogy Project–http://irelandgenealogyprojects.rootsweb.com/

Griffiths Valuation–http://www.failteromhat.com/griffiths.htm

Gen Uki–http://www.genuki.org.uk/

Boston College – Information Wanted:    A Database of Advertisements for Irish Immigrants Published in the Boston Pilot

Janice

P.S.: Nollaig shona duit/daoibh! (Happy Christmas to you – singular/plural)

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